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A Practical Guide
For Conducting A
Church Visitation Program
January 2004
What Visitation Will Do For Your Church (1)
Vitalizes
the work of the Sunday School and Church.
Increases the enrollment
of the Church, the Sunday School and other Ministries.
Secures home cooperation.
Inspires regular attendance
to all services.
Ties the home closer to
the Sunday School and Church.
Affords a soul winning
opportunity.
Typifies the loving interest
of Christ.
Insures growth in grace.
Opens the doors of homes.
Nurtures friendliness,
goodwill, & increases fellowship.
Visitation Is Every Christian's Job
James 1:27 This is pure and
undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father, to visit orphans
and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the
world (NASB).
Matthew 28:19 "Go therefore and make disciples
of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and
of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 "teaching them to observe
all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always,
even to the end of the age." Amen (NJKV).
Acts 15:36 And some days after Paul said unto
Barnabas, Let us go again and visit our brethren in every city where
we have preached the word of the Lord, and see how they do
(KJV).
Every church member is a candidate to be a part of a church visitation
ministry, in fact, they are vital to its success.
The top 4 reasons given for why people come to church.
(2)
1. Invitation from friend or relative.
2. Advertisement.
3. Organized Visitation.
4. Pastoral Contact (except where there has been contact like a wedding
or funeral).
When the pastor visits, he is looked upon as a paid salesman, but when
members of a church visit a home, they are looked upon as satisfied customers.
Visiting, witnessing, lay people who know how to win souls bring power
to a church, so it is important to have them trained and involved.
(3)
It is also very important to have key members of the church involved
because they will motivate and encourage others to get involved. The
key members, as a minimum, are the pastor (this includes elders if your
church has them), the deacons, the Sunday School director and teachers.
If your church is going to have a successful and fruitful visitation
program then these individuals must set the example if they expect others
to be involved.
The 4 reasons why people say they don't go to church.
(4)
1. The church is not relevant to what is going
on in their lives.
2. Never have been invited.
3. Mistaken notion about the church is only after their money.
4. They believe that the church is insincere.
A church that does not reach out to its community will only continue to
fuel these attitudes to the lost. If a church is sincerely following the
Lord they will have a desire to show individuals that Christ is relevant
to what is going on in their lives, they will invite people to come to
church, and the end result will be that these people will come to realize
that the church cares more about them than they do their money. A active
church visitation program will accomplish all of these things.
12 Types Of Visitation
1. Soul Winning Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to lead
the lost to Christ.
2. Survey Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to find
prospects and gathering information about your local community so as
to better minister to the needs of your community.
3. Sunday School Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to contact
absentees (those who are already enrolled) and encourage them to participate
in Sunday School, and to meet new prospects.
4. Bus Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to reach
the lost by going out into the community and bringing them to church.
Usually this ministry is focused more towards children, became many
adults will not go to church but will allow their children to go if
they have a ride. As a result, this will often give you the opportunity
to witness to their parents.
5. Follow-up Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to encourage
and strengthen individuals so they will follow through on their decisions.
For example, if they have made a profession of faith, you would encourage
them to follow through with baptism and discipleship. If someone has
rededicated their lives to Christ, then you would want to encourage
them to seek discipleship, or involvement in the church through service.
6. Shut-in Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to reach
out and minister to those who cannot come to church because of their
health. This ministry provides fellowship and seeks to minister to their
needs.
7. Hospital Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to reach
out to minister to church members, visitors, and contacts who are in
the hospital. Often, it is during a crisis in a person's life when the
lost person is more open to the gospel. This provides us with an opportunity
to witness. Also, it demonstrates the church's love, concern and compassion
towards those who are in great need.
8. Sick Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to reach
out to those who are sick and have missed church. We can do this by
taking food to them, helping around the house, and/or simply holding
their hand and praying with them.
9. Welcoming Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to reach
out to new families who have recently moved into your area. This is
an opportunity to establish a relationship with them, and to share information
about your church - let's not forget the importance of inviting them
to come to church either. An effective way to open doors in this ministry
is to take a "welcome basket" which can contain information about
your church and a small gift (like a coffee cup, or a church recipe
book, ink pens, etc. - give something that a person would be likely
to keep and make sure that it has the name of the church and phone number
on it. This will be a constant reminder to them every time they use
the gift).
10. Promotional Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to promote
church events that are designed to draw new people into the church (or
even to draw wayward members back into the church). Some examples of
this would be VBS, Music Programs, Fall Festivals, etc.
11. Prospect Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to visit
someone who has been referred to your church by someone.
12. Wayward Members Visitation.
The purpose of this type of visitation is to encourage
inactive members to return to church. While this ministry is important,
I have also found it is the most difficult because you are normally
dealing with people who are basically backslidden. I have visited hundreds
of these types of people over the years, and they are usually very polite
and will often admit that they need to get back into church, but very
seldom do they respond by coming back to church. Be careful not to encourage
them in their excuses, but get them refocused upon what the bible teaches
about Christian envolvement in church (like Hebrews 10:24-25).
There are 3 common elements that are found in any type of visitation;
1) to reach the lost for Christ; 2) to ministry to the physical, and
spiritual needs of an individual; and 3) to promote church growth, which
is the life blood of the local church (this is the end result of the
first two reasons).
Be Organized
1 Corinthians 14:40 But everything should be
done in a fitting and orderly way (NIV).
"The ministry of visitation, if not planned,
usually never happens." (5)
Barry Campbell
Put Someone In Charge.
In order to have an effective and active visitation ministry, your church
needs to have one person who oversees the whole ministry. This can be
the pastor, associate pastor, an elder, a deacon, or anyone else who
is capable of organizing, overseeing, promoting, and actively keeping
the visitation ministry moving forward. If you fail to appoint someone
like this, then the ministry will struggle and probably fail due to
lack of attention. There's nothing wrong with having others help this
individual, but there needs to be one central person who can be held
accountable for this ministry. Once your church appoints someone to
oversee this ministry, then they also need to support them with their
prayers, and funding for supplies and materials.
Set Up A Visitation Ministry Tracking System.
There are many ways to set up a visitation ministry. Some use color-coded
index cards, bulletin boards, computers, etc. A basic program should
have a organized system to track and file visitation results. For the
average small church, really all you need is a couple of small index
card boxes and some index cards. The cards should record some basic
information, like First and Last names, Children's names, local address,
phone number, and any special requests of those who need to be visited.
On the back of the card, have the visitation team write the date, time
and summarize the results of the visit (this is for future reference).
One of your index boxes should be labeled "visited" and the other "prospects"
(or something like this). This way you can keep track of the people
who have not been visited, and you will quickly be able to tell if you
need to do a follow-up visit to someone you have already visited (try
to save these for the nights when you don't have any new prospects or
you have more visitation teams than you do prospects). You could also
have another index box with just the names of inactive church members.
It is good to do follow-up on your wayward members, and to encourage
them to become active again in serving the Lord. Some churches also
use a sign-in sheet to have a quick reference for keeping up with what
the ministry is doing (this gives a quick overview for giving updates
and reports to the church).
A visitation team consists of a minimum of 2 people, and no more than
a maximum of 3 people - you don't want to overwhelm those whom you are
visiting. Give your visitation teams assignment cards to take with them.
Only give out 2 or 3 cards per team. Three visits in one night is a
full plate, and usually you'll only have enough time for 2 good visits
(unless someone is gone or they are busy). The amount of assignment
cards will largely depend upon how many visitation teams you have, and
how many visits that need to be made. Make sure they bring the cards
back to the church and record on the back of it a summary of the visit
before the card is filed (this information should include such things
as time, date, who visited and who was home, and visit results). You
could simplify this process by having a "drop box" at the church
for the cards to dropped in to, or make sure you designate a place for
the cards to be left before the teams leave.
Have A Definite Time To Go.
Most churches will conduct their visitation ministry either on Monday,
Tuesday or Thursday nights. The main reason for going at night is simply
because you will tend to find people at home in the evenings, and these
nights seem to have less activities going on where the family is gone.
If you go during the day, then you will typically either miss everyone
or only catch one spouse at home. The exceptions to this would be hospital
and shut-in visits, or when someone is working shift work. Whether you
call the family first, or you go and just show up at their house is
really up to you. Sometimes it is better to call ahead to set up an
appointment, but there are also times if you do call ahead then they
will never make themselves available too. So use some common sense when
it comes to calling, and it will largely depend upon the people on how
you would want to handle it.
Noel Wright, in his booklet, The Day Of Visitation (6), gives three advantages and disadvantages of conducting
your visit on Monday, Tuesday, or Thursday:
Monday: The advantage of Monday night is
that the Sunday service is still fresh in their minds. The disadvantage
is the time distance between Monday and the next Sunday, so the impact
of the visit will tend to fade.
Tuesday: The advantage is that you allows for your church
to pray and plan for a good visit. Again, the biggest disadvantage
is the time distance until the next Sunday.
Thursday: The advantage is that this day is the closest to
the next Sunday, so your visit will be fresher on the minds of those
you visited and may encourage them to visit your church again the
next Sunday. The disadvantage may be the time distance between their
first visit and when you contact them.
Truthfully, the best night for you to visit will probably come down to
the night that you can get the best attendance and support from your congregation.
The important issue here, is to set a night and time so that everyone
knows, week-in and week-out, when the church has it visitation ministry.
When you are consistent, it makes it easier for people to remember when
they need to show up. If you tend to change that night, then it will only
confuse people, and will make participation drop off. Avoid having visitation
on a night that conflicts with other ministries in the church. Likewise,
don't schedule other church events that will conflict with your visitation
night, if it done enough of the time it will eventually kill a ministry
entirely.
Once you set the visitation night and time, then it needs to be actively
promoted to the church. Post the information in the weekly church bulletin.
Have people who participate in the visitation ministry give testimonies
about their experiences. Years ago, I was in a church that went out
on a Saturday to knock on doors to simply invite people to our church.
Our pastor had us get up that Sunday morning to give a short testimony
about our experiences. While we didn't have a massive response to our
efforts, our experience was very uplifting and encouraging to those
who participated, and to the rest of the church. I have personally found
over the years that I have felt like the people that I had visited where
more of a blessing to me than I was to them, and this is probably the
case with most people who participate in visitation. I have had only
had a couple of negative experiences in all the years that I have done
visitation, and none of these were life threatening or physically harmful
(usually you'll just get a very negative verbal response to your effort,
and these are really far and few between).
Provide Your Team Members With The Tools That Are
Needed.
Provide visitation assignments. Prepare
prospect cards or forms for the visitation teams prior to them showing
up to church. It is best to arrange their assignments geographically,
that is, give them homes that are as close together as possible to prevent
them from wasting most of their time just driving from one home to another.
This will allow them more time for visiting. (7)
Provide various Tracts that may be needed. It is best if the
church buys and supplies the tracts because this way you can ensure
that they are doctrinally correct and appropriate for the purpose
of the visit. There are a variety of tracts that can be used, for
example there are tracts that are designed to encourage believers;
there are tracts that are designed to give hope and encouragement
to people who are grieving for the loss of a loved one; there are
tracts that are designed to lead people to a saving knowledge of Jesus
Christ. So it would be a good idea to have a good variety of tracts
to match the purpose of the visit. Ray Comfort, of Living Waters
Ministries, gives this advise when handing out tracts:
When giving out tracts don't ask, "Would you
like one of these?" They will probably just say "No", or "What is
it?" Instead ask, "Did you get one of these?" You stir their curiosity
and make them ask, "One of what?" That's when you hand it to them.
It also makes them feel as though they are missing out on something.
(8)
Provide door hangers. These can be purchased
at any Christian book store. If you have someone who has a computer
and is graphically gifted you can print your own door hangers. Make
sure that you hanger contains the name and address of your church, and
a place to record the date and time of the visit, the names of those
who visited, and a place to write a short note on it too. It is important
that you leave evidence of your visit if no one is home. You may have
missed the family, but they will know that your church cared enough
to make the effort to see them. If you are stuck without a door hanger,
then use a church business card and write on the back of if, then stick
it in the door before you leave.
Here are some suggestions for those who print
up their own door hangers. We put the following information on our
door hangers: You Have Been Visited By (Name of Church, Address, Phone
Number, and website address). This is followed by a box to write in
which has this preprinted opening sentence, "I'm Sorry That I Missed
You!" Under the box, we have printed the following information, "Please
come and be with us again" followed by our hours of our weekly services.
We also put a brief "Plan of Salvation" message on the back of the
door hanger (in a small enough print that still can be read, and will
fit in the space that is available);
Something to think about. . .
Everything you hold dear to you is going to be torn from your hands
by death. Whether we like it or not, we are all part of the ultimate
statistic: Ten out of ten die. No doubt you have wondered why death
separates us from our loved ones. This happens because we have broken
an eternal Law; "for the wages of sin is death. . ." (Rom.6:23a).
Let's look at the Law (10 Commandments) and see if we have broken
any of them in any way: 1) You shall have no other gods before
Me (have we loved God above all else?). 2)You shall not
make yourself a graven image (make a god to suit ourselves,
with our hands or our mind). 3) You shall not take God's name
in vain. 4) Remember the Sabbath Day, to keep it holy. 5) Honor
your father and mother. 6) You shall not murder (hatred is
considered as murder). 7) You shall not commit adultery (lust
is adultery of the heart; includes sex before marriage). 8)
You shall not steal (the value is irrelevant). 9) You shall
not lie (including answering these questions). 10) You
shall not covet.
The Bible says that God will punish all murderers, rapists, thieves,
liars, adulterers, etc. (Heb.9:22; Rev.21:8). He will even judge
our words and thoughts (Mat.13:36-37; 1Chr.28:9). On Judgment
Day, will you be found to be guilty or innocent of breaking His
Law (Rev.20:11-15)?
God, however, made a way where His justice and His goodness could
meet. We broke the Law, but He became a man to pay the fine. Almighty
God demonstrated how much He loves you when Jesus suffered for
you on the cross; "But God demonstrates his own love for us
in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us"
(Rom 5:8 NIV). If you want to trust in your own goodness, then
you are saying His agonizing death on the cross was in vain.
The Bible says, "For by grace are you saved through faith,
and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God" (Eph.2:8-9).
You cannot earn a gift.
When Jesus said to "believe" on Him, He was saying we should
have faith in Him, in the same way you would trust a parachute
to save you when you jump from a plane. You don't merely believe
in the parachute -- you put it on!
Please don't "jump" without Jesus. If you die in your
sins there is no second chance. God will give you justice, and
you will end up in Hell forever. Any troubles you have at present,
are dwarfed by the trouble you are in with your Creator. His wrath
abides upon you (John 3:36).
Confess your sins to God right now, put your trust in Jesus as
Savior, and you will pass from death to life (John 5:24;
Rom.10:9-10). Then read the Bible daily and obey what you read.
Have faith in God, He will never let you down.
Provide printed church information. When
visiting people who may be considering whether to join your church,
it is very helpful to have information available for them about your
church. Have pamphlets printed up that give a brief overview, that highlight
your church and its ministries. It is highly recommended that any printed
material that you hand out is of good quality, if it isn't done properly
then it will give a negative impression about your church to those who
are visiting. It is also a good idea to have copies of your church Constitution
and Bylaws to give out if asked for. This also means that those who
are doing the visiting must be familiar with these documents if the
potential members have any questions. When talking with people about
your church, always be truthful, but positive (every church has it problems,
but you will never get anyone to come back if you make it sound like
there is massive division and strife, so stay on subject and don't get
sidetracked on minor issues. If you church is having major problems,
then they need to repent of their sin and put God's house in order before
they ever go out and invite other people to come and join them).
Provide Maps, or copies of sections of maps, of the area to
be visited. This will greatly aid those who are driving around looking
for the address. If your visitation teams have a general idea of where
someone lives before they leave the church, then it makes it a lot
easier for them to find the house. It is a good idea to have a "master
map" of the area posted on a wall in the church. This way the team
can look at it before they leave, to help them find the location.
It is also recommended that you encourage your visitation teams to
carry flash lights with them when they go out (especially during
the winter months when it gets dark earlier). Home addresses can be
pretty hard to see in the dark, especially if they are not in an easily
viewed area where there are no street lights.
Provide or encourage team members to get a pocket bible. Don't
carry a large bible because it might scare off a nonbeliever. It is
also a good idea to carry a second pocket bible (or New Testament)
so you can have a lost person to read along with you. If they accept
Christ, then you can give them the copy of the Testament.
(9) It is also a good idea to write in the back of your
personal pocket bible, useful information such as, common objections
with Scripture references which answers the objection (sort of like
a quick reference listing - some pocket testament will have preprinted
references like this).
Provide nursery workers, if needed. If your visitation ministry
is large enough, and you have individuals participating who have children,
then it would be good for the church to arrange for nursery workers.
Train Your Team Members To Know How To Visit.
One of the reasons why America has one of the best militaries in the world,
is that they spend a lot of time training their personnel on how to use
their equipment and how to respond to various situations that they may
come into contact with. Likewise, as the Lord's army, we too need to make
sure that we take the time to train our people before they are sent out
if we want to be successful in accomplishing our mission.
Ephesians 6:10-18, Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His
might. Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to
stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle
is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the
powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual
forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, take
up the full armor of God, that you may be able to resist in the evil
day, and having done everything, to stand firm. Stand firm
therefore, having girded your loins with truth, and having put on
the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet
with the preparation of the gospel of peace; in addition to
all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to
extinguish all the flaming missiles of the evil one. And take
the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the
word of God. With all prayer and petition pray at all times
in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance
and petition for all the saints (NASB).
1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts set
apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone
who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But
do this with gentleness and respect (NIV).
Do some basic training before you send a new person out. This training
should include such things as; how the visitation program is ran, personal
behavior, preparing and giving their personal testimony, and a basic understanding
of how to witness to lost person:
TRAINING IN HOW THE VISITATION PROGRAM IS RUN:
They need to understand how your church runs its visitation program,
simply because it not only helps to train future leaders, but it also
helps to maintain continuity and to reduce misunderstanding and potential
problems that could get the ministry off track.
TRAINING IN PERSONAL BEHAVIOR: Barry Campbell,
in his book, Toolbox for [busy] Pastors
(10), gives this advise about how we should behave when we
make a visit:
- Don't be pushy - Leave the door open
for future visits. Ask the person if they would allow you to come
inside for a brief time of discussion about your church. Allow the
prospect to make that decision.
- Don't embarrass the prospect - Generally, if the prospect
is embarrassed by your conversation, you have not handled it properly.
- Understand the principle of harvest - Harvest will not
come unless sowing and cultivation come first. The harvest may come
several weeks after the initial visit.
- Be clean and neat - Dress casually. Let your dress communicate
that the visit is important but not formal.
- Go "two by two" - Follow the example of Jesus in Luke
10:1. Certain circumstances of the visit are more easily handled
when two are present.
- Be courteous - If the prospect has company or is in the
middle of dinner, the visitation team should graciously agree to
come at another time.
- Don't be surprised by non-Christian behavior - Remember,
a change of heart will result in a change of behavior. Don't expect
the change of behavior to occur first.
- Avoid verbal overkill - don't use language the prospect
won't understand.
- Be Complimentary - Find something about the person, the
home, or the children that you can honestly compliment.
- We live in a selfish world, and people like
to hear people talk good about them. The best thing to brag on is
children. Be able to compliment little children. Compliment the
home. If there is a new piece of furniture in the house, a beautiful
carpet, a nice sofa or a dresser, brag on it. Be on the lookout
for things to compliment. But MAKE SURE that your compliments are
genuine, if not you will come across like you are only trying to
patronize the family. (11)
- Know names and family information - Never carry the prospect
assignment card to the door. Become familiar with it before you approach
the home.
- Be spiritually perceptive to all you see
or hear in the home. For example, you may see other family members
who were not listed on the visitation card. If this does happen,
then make sure you make a note of this information and later write
it on the visitation card before you turn it in. The family could
have other members who are away at college or the military. (12)
- Decide who will lead - one person on the visitation team
should lead the conversation.
- Sometimes people will respond to one of the
team members better than they would another. If you are not the
one doing the talking, then be quiet until your partner is finished.
The one doing the talking should do all the talking. The person
who is not doing the talking, should keep the way clear for the
other person. For example if another family member distracts the
person that you are talking too, so the team member who isn't talking
can keep them busy so they don't distract the conversation between
the other two parties. (13)
- Go to the front door - Don't assume the prospect will expect
guest at the back door.
- The exception to this would be if you have
been told prior to the visit by the family which door to go to.
- Also it is suggested that you don't park in their driveway
if there is an alternative. Many times a visit that is going well
will be interrupted by the need for a car to be moved.
(14)
- Pray for the person you are visiting - Before leaving the
parking lot at the church, pause and pray for the visitation encounter.
- Ask God to help and give power, and to open
the doors and hearts of those that you are about to visit. Keep
it brief, so you don't take up your visitation time in prayer and
never go visiting. (15)
- Prepare introductory remarks - without sounding as if the
remarks are canned, state you name, your partner's name, and the church
you represent.
- Show genuine interest in the prospect - you cannot convey
genuine interest without listening to the prospect.
- Be a Good Listener. People like to talk about
themselves, so spend some time listening to them talk. Talk to them
about their interests, family, where they are from. If you let them
talk, then when it is your time to talk, people will listen to what
you have to say. (16)
- Have a conversation plan to keep you on track - Use the acrostic
FORM. "F" stands for questions about family.
"O" represents conversation about occupation or work.
"R" is for the prospect's involvement in religion or
church. "M" stands for your message or the reason for
you visit.
- By doing something like this, you will be
maintaining the focus and purpose of the visit, and will not tend
to wander aimlessly. This will also help you to naturally present
the gospel, if needed, so that it won't sound fake or forced - thus
it will be received much easier too.
TRAINING IN PERSONAL TESTIMONIES: Be prepared
to give your personal testimony about how you came to know Christ, in
case the opportunity presents itself to you. It is hard to argue with
someone's personal experience, and that is why personal testimonies
are so effective. The Apostle Paul gives us his personal testimony in
the book of Galatians and in the book of Acts. If we examine his testimony,
it provides us with a biblical example to follow when it comes to sharing
our own personal testimony with others. Good testimonies will not only
be a witness to the lost of the power of the gospel, but they will also
be an encouragement to other believers who hear them. This is actually
what Paul's testimony did and still is doing today. Paul's testimony
is divided up into these three parts. . .
Tell of your life before Christ (Gal.1:13-14;
Acts 26:4-11).
The Apostle Paul describes his former standing
and activities before he became a Christian.
Take the time to summarize what your life was like before you
came to know Christ.
Remember, everyone has a different background
and each one is just as important as the next one - because those
who are listening come from different backgrounds too, and will
only to able to "connect" or "relate" to those individuals that
they have something in common with.
Often we think that only those who come
out of a background of drugs, alcohol, sex, violence, etc.,
have the only good testimonies, but not everyone can relate
to these types of backgrounds.
God can use a testimony of someone who grew up in a Christian
home as much as He can use the most extreme situation - so
don't let this stop you from giving your testimony.
If you do come from some extreme background, don't try to share
every little piece of information, this could become a distraction
and can even be offensive to some people (especially if there
are children in the audience).
Let me give you an example of this: I once
heard a woman give her testimony about her life before Christ
and how she was sleeping around with numerous men. Instead of
saying it in general way, like I just described it, she began
to talk about all kinds of details, almost to the point of the
number of men, names, where they met, etc. The result was that
her testimony tended to put everyone in shock more than it helped
anyone to relate to her testimony.
Don't try to gave every little detail, but only those details
that will give people a general overview of what your life
was before Christ. Remember, you are doing this so that people
will be able to see a contrast between what your old life
was like before Christ, and your new life as a Christian,
and how Christ has made a difference.
Tell how you came to trust Christ as your Savior (Gal.1:15-16a;
Acts 26:12-18).
The Apostle Paul simply recounted how God saved
him.
Tell about:
How God spoke to your heart.
Who God used and how they witnessed to you.
Where you were at when you were saved.
How you responded to that call.
Tell of your life after you put your trust
in Christ (Gal.1:16b-24; Acts 26:19-23).
The Apostle Paul shared about how the Lord
prepared him to preach the gospel, and about his ministry to other
believers and their churches.
Explain how your life has been changed since you accepted Christ.
How has this change impacted your personal
life.
Examples: new strength to overcome problems,
how your life now has a focus and a purpose, a new outlook on
life or about other people, etc. . .
How has your changed life impacted others.
Examples: helping others who may be going
through the same type of problems that you went through, ministries
that you are actively involved in now, etc. . .
Additional Advise On Personal Testimonies:
A good testimony should be no longer than 15
minutes and no shorter than 5 minutes. Let the place where you are
sharing your testimony dictate your length. Read Paul's testimony
out loud and time it to see long he took. If you are talking one-on-one
then you can take longer to give your testimony, but if you are
speaking before a church (or some other group) where other people
will also be speaking, then you need to make sure that you keep
your testimony short.
Look again at Paul's testimony, see how it is tightly put together
- he didn't ramble on about things that had no bearing on his
testimony. It is good to set down and write out your testimony,
and then rework it over and over again so that what you
are sharing is very clear and focused. Try to get it down to 5
minutes, this will prepare you to give it everywhere - it is always
easier to add to it than it is to shorten it. Avoid rambling,
this will only become a distraction to those who are listening,
and will cause your testimony to lose its effectiveness - people
will mentally tune you out. Practice giving your testimony
so that you will be prepared to give it when the opportunity presents
itself.
TRAINING IN WITNESSING: Provide your visitation team members
with witnessing training.
Overcoming Our Fears of Witnessing: Most
Christians fail to witness because of fear. In the witnessing course,
Share Jesus Without Fear, they give us five keys to
having a heart that overcomes the fear of witnessing.
(17)
Passion (having a heart of the lost).
Prayer (prayer make the difference in witnessing).
Partnership (having our own special relationship with Christ).
Power (God provides the power we need to be effective).
Preparation (being prepared to respond to witnessing opportunities).
The fear of witnessing isn't so scary when we understand
what our part is in the whole process. God didn't call us to save
anyone, He called us to participate with Him in the witnessing process.
God does the saving! The Holy Spirit's ministry in the salvation process
is to convict and draw people to God.
John 16:8-11, And
when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of
righteousness, and of judgment: of sin, because
they do not believe in Me; of righteousness, because I go
to My Father and you see Me no more; of judgment, because
the ruler of this world is judged (NKJV).
First, the Holy Spirit clarifies the
issue of sin in an individual's life (i.e., Convicts).
Second, the Holy Spirit clarifies the issue of God's
righteousness verses man's unrighteousness.
Third, the Holy Spirit clarifies the issue of God's
judgment upon the unrighteous.
So it is God's job to do the convicting and saving
of lost people - not ours. What is our part? Our part is to unleash
God's Power, that is, to share the gospel message with the lost. We
are working in partnership with the Holy Spirit.
1 Corinthians 3:6-7, I
planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the
increase. So then neither he who plants is anything,
nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase (NKJV).
So every time that we share the gospel we
are either planting the seeds of salvation or we are helping the
seeds to grow and blossom into salvation by watering them with
the springs of living water of the gospel. We are successful,
not when "we" lead someone to Christ, but rather when we share
the gospel - that is all God has asked us to do, because we are
not capable of saving anyone - only God can save someone.
Methods for Witnessing: There are a variety of effective witnessing
methods that can be used to share Christ;
R.C.C.R. Method (18)
John 4:7-26 gives us the Lord's example of
how to share our faith. When Jesus spoke to the woman at the well,
He did it when she was alone. We will often find that people are
more open and honest when they are alone. So, if possible, pick
a person who is sitting by himself. This method is good because
it uses the 10 Commandments to convict and expose the sin of the
lost person without us telling them that they are a sinner. Most
lost people today don't believe that they are "that bad" of a
person:
Relate: Jesus began in the natural
realm (v.7).
This woman was unregenerate, and the bible
tells us "the natural man receives not the things of the Spirit
of God" (1 Corinthians 2:14). He therefore spoke of something
she could relate to - water. Most of us can strike up a conversation
with a stranger in the natural realm. It may be a friendly "How
are you doing?" or a warm "Good morning!" If the person responds
with a sense of warmth, we may then ask, "Do you live around
here?" and from there develop a conversation.
Create: Jesus swung the conversation
to the spiritual realm (v.10).
He simply mentioned the things of God.
We may say something like, "Did you go to church on Sunday?"
or "Did you see that Christian TV program last week?" If the
person responds positively, the next question should be, "Do
you have a Christian background?" This will probe their background.
They may answer, "I went to church when I was a child, but I
drifted away from it."
Another simple way to swing to the spiritual
is to offer the person a gospel tract and ask, "Did you get
one of these?" When he takes it, simply say, "It's a gospel
tract. Do you come from a Christian background?"
Convict: Jesus brought conviction
using the Law of God (vv.16-18).
Jesus gently spoke to the woman's conscience
by alluding to the fact that she had transgressed the Seventh
of the Ten Commandments. He used the Law to bring "the knowledge
of sin" (see Romans 3:19,20). We can do the same by asking,
"Do you think that you have kept the Ten Commandments?" Most
people think they have, so quickly follow with, "Have you ever
told a lie?" This is confrontational, but if it's asked in a
spirit of love and gentleness, there won't be any offense. Remember
that the "work of the Law [is] written in their hearts" and
that the conscience will bear "witness" (Romans 2:15).
Jesus confronted the rich young ruler in Luke 18:18-21 with
five of the Ten Commandments and there was no offense. Have
confidence that the conscience will do its work and affirm
the truth of each commandment. Don't be afraid to gently ask,
"Have you ever stolen something, even if it's small?"
Learn how to open up the spirituality of the Law and show
how God considers lust to be the same as adultery (Matthew
5:27,28) and hatred the same as murder (1 John 3:15). Make
sure you get an admission of guilt. Ask the person, "If God
judges you by the Ten Commandments on Judgment Day, do you
think you will be innocent or guilty?" If he says he will
be innocent, ask, "Why is that?" If he admits his guilt, ask,
"Do you think you will go to heaven or hell?"
From there the conversation may go one of three ways:
He may confidently say, "I don't believe
in hell." Gently respond, "That doesn't matter. You still
have to face God on Judgment Day whether you believe in it
or not. If I step onto the freeway when a massive truck is
heading for me and I say, 'I don't believe in trucks,' my
lack of belief isn't going to change reality." Then tenderly
tell him he has already admitted to you that he has lied,
stolen, and committed adultery in his heart, and that God
gave him a conscience so that he would know right from wrong.
His conscience and the conviction of the Holy Spirit will
do the rest. That's why it is essential to draw out an admission
of guilt before you mention Judgment Day or the existence
of hell.
He may say that he's guilty, but that
he will go to heaven. This is usually because he thinks that
God is "good," and that He will, therefore, overlook sin in
his case. Point out that if a judge in a criminal case has
a guilty murderer standing before him, the judge, if he is
a good man, can't just let him go. He must ensure that the
guilty man is punished. If God is good, He must (by His nature)
punish murderers, rapists, thieves, liars, adulterers, fornicators,
and those who have lived in rebellion to the inner light that
God has given to every man.
He may admit that he is guilty and therefore going to hell.
Ask him if that concerns him.
Reveal: Jesus
revealed Himself to her (v.26).
Once the Law has humbled the person, he
is ready for grace. Remember, the Bible says that God resists
the proud and gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). The
Gospel is for the humble. Jesus gives us a summation of
who the gospel is for: the poor, the brokenhearted, the captives,
the blind, the bruised (oppressed). Jesus is not referring to
those who lack financial resources when He speaks of the poor.
The word means "meek, humble, lowly" and refers to the "poor
in spirit" (Matthew 5:3) - the blessed ones to whom the kingdom
of God belongs. The poor are those who know that they are destitute
of righteousness. The brokenhearted refers not to unhappy people
who have been jilted by a sweetheart, but to those who, like
Peter and Isaiah, are contrite and sorrowing for their sin.
Matthew Henry wrote of Jesus, "For He was sent to heal the brokenhearted,
to give peace to those that were troubled and humbled for sins,
and to bring them to rest who were weary and heavy-laden, under
the burden of guilt and corruption." The captives are those
"taken captive by [the devil] at his will" (2 Timothy 2:26).
The blind are those whom "the god of this world has blinded
. . . [to] the light of the glorious gospel of Christ" (2 Corinthians
4:4). The oppressed are those who are "oppressed of the devil"
(Acts 10:38). The gospel of grace is for the humble, not the
proud. God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble
(James 4:6). The Scriptures tell us, "Every one that is proud
in heart is an abomination to the Lord" (Proverbs 16:5). He
sets on high those who are lowly, and those who mourn are lifted
to safety (Job 5:11). God looks on the man who is poor and of
a contrite spirit, and who trembles at His Word (Isaiah 66:2).
Only the sick need a physician, and only those who are convinced
of the disease of sin will appreciate and appropriate the cure
of the gospel.
Learn how to present the work of the cross
- that God sent His Son to suffer and die in our place. Tell
the sinner of the love of God in Christ; that Jesus rose from
the dead and defeated death. Take him back to civil law and
say, "It's as simple as this: We broke God's Law, and Jesus
paid our fine. If you will repent and trust in the Savior, God
will forgive your sins and dismiss your case."
Ask him if he understands what you have told him. If he is
willing to confess and forsake his sins, and trust the Savior
with his eternal salvation, have him pray and ask God to forgive
him. Then pray for him. Get him a bible. Instruct him to read
it daily and obey what he reads, and encourage him to get
into a bible-believing, Christ-preaching church.
ABC's OF EVANGELISM Method (19)
In a very complicated, "religious" world...
God has made salvation simple. Whoever calls on the name of the
Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13). The advantage of this method
is it is as easy to use as "A.B.C."
Admit
you are a sinner in need of the Savior, Jesus Christ: Your sin
separates you from having fellowship with God (Romans 3:23;
Isaiah 53:6; James 2:10; Romans 3:10-12; John 3:3; Acts 4:12).
A relationship with Jesus Christ begins
with your admission that you need God. You must admit you
need God to do three things:
You need God to forgive you of your sins, those attitudes
or actions that don't meet God's standards.
"If we say that we have no sin, we
deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess
ours sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (I John 1:8,9)
You need God to give you eternal life. For the wages of sin
is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus
our Lord." (Romans 6:23).
You need God to show you His purpose for your life.
Jesus speaks to us in John 10: 10 in
the New Testament, "The thief (Satan)
does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.
I (Jesus) have come that they may have
life and that they may have it more abundantly." and in
the Old Testament, the prophet Jeremiah writes to us in
chapter 29: verse 11: 'For I know the plans that
I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans for welfare
and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.
Believe that Jesus died to
pay the penalty for your sins: The penalty for your sin is death.
God loves you so much, He provided a way for you to escape that
penalty (Acts 16:31; Luke 5:32, 13:3; Hebrews 11:6; Romans 2:4,
10:17; John 3:16, 20:21).
"For God so loved the world that He gave
His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him will not
perish but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
Jesus can and will save anyone from an eternity without
God, and from eternal punishment in Hell. He died and rose
again for your justification, to put your relationship with
God in right standing. Don't misunderstand the message of
salvation. God is not standing ready to send you to Hell,
rather it is your rejection of His Son Jesus whereby you
choose yourself to enter Hell's fires. God has made a way
of escape, you must choose to accept it.
"He (Jesus) was delivered over to
death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification."
(Romans 4:25)
Belief in the death and resurrection of Jesus for your sins
is essential for salvation, but it is not enough.
"You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the
demons believe God and tremble." (James 2:19)
Confess Jesus as Lord and Savior of your life (Romans 10:9-10;
Acts 19:18; 1 John 1:9, 4:15):
Confessing Jesus as Lord means to commit
total control of your life to Christ. You give him the ownership
of your life. He becomes your new boss. Romans 10: 9-10 tells
us "that if you confess with your mouth Jesus {as} Lord, and
believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you
will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting
in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting
in salvation.
ROMANS ROAD Method
This method of witnessing is effective because
you are presenting the gospel without leaving the book of Romans.
You simply "draw" a road map in your bible to tell yourself where
to go. All you need to do is to remember where to start at - Romans
3:10 (you could even write this part down in the front cover of
your bible). Right beside Romans 3:10 write the next verse to
tell your where to go, then continue to do the same with the rest
of the verses. Underline or highlight each verse so that it is
easy to see.
Here's the Roman's Road method: Romans 3:10 (it tells
us that no one has a right relationship with God); Romans
3:23 (everyone has sinned against God, this is why our relationship
is broken with God); Romans 5:12 (Christ died for sinners);
Romans 6:23 (the penalty of sin); Romans 5:8 (again
the penalty of sin is death, but we can have eternal life through
Christ); and Romans 10:9-13 (this tells a person how
to be saved).
SHARE JESUS WITHOUT FEAR Method (20)
This method is similar to the Romans Road
Method, in that you are making a road map in your bible so you
know where to go, except with this method you are using other
Scriptures outside of the book of Romans. The Scriptures used
with this method are Romans 3:23 (everyone has sinned against
God, this is why our relationship is broken with God); Romans
6:23 (the penalty of sin); John 3:3 (speaks of the
need to accept Christ); John 14:6 (this points out that
there is only one way to be saved - also see Acts 4:12); Romans
10:9-10 (this tells a person how to be saved); 2 Corinthians
5:15 (this speaks of the new life in Christ - also see 2 Cor.5:17);
Revelation 3:20 (they use this verse to ask the person
if they are willing to let Christ come into their hearts by accepting
Him as their Savior. Please note, while this verse may sound good
for this purpose, but the context is actually speaking to backslidden
Christians, so you might want to consider finding a more appropriate
passage: other good verses to substitute for this one are, 2 Cor.6:2;
Matt.24:44; James 4:13-14).
Using this method, read the verse out loud
or have the person you are witnessing to read the verse out
loud. Then ask them "What does this say to you" after
each verse. This reinforces what they have just read, and gives
you the opportunity to clarify or correct any misunderstanding.
They suggest that when you are finished taking the person
through the passages, that there are 5 Questions that you
should ask that will lead a person to a point of decision:
Are you a sinner?
Do you want forgiveness for you sins?
Do you believe Jesus died on the cross for you and rose
again?
Are you willing to surrender your life to Christ?
Are you ready to invite Jesus into your life and into your
heart?
With this 5th question,
there are two important things you must do after you have
asked it:
Be silent, so the person has time
to say whatever they want to say.
Pray silently as you listen, this will keep you from
interrupting the silence.
There are only two possible answers that you will be given
at this point:
If YES, then guide them in prayer
with something like this; "Heavenly Father, I have
sinned against You. I want forgiveness for all my sins.
I believe that Jesus died on the cross for me and rose
again. Father, I give You my life to do with as You wish.
I want Jesus Christ to come into my life and into my heart.
This I ask in Jesus' name. Amen." - Notice this prayer
responds to the 5 closing questions.
If NO, then ask them WHY? Let their answer reveal what
is going on deep inside the person. The question "Why?"
provides an opportunity to deal with the issue.
THE FOUR SPIRITUAL LAWS Method (21)
The Four Spiritual Laws presents a
clear explanation of the gospel of Jesus Christ using the Tract
from Campus Crusade. This is an effective evangelistic tools that
uses a four point outline:
God LOVES you, and offers a wonderful PLAN
for your life (John 3:16; John 10:10).
Man is SINFUL and SEPARATED from God. Therefore, he cannot
know and experience God's love and plan for his life (Romans
3:23, 6:23).
Jesus Christ is God's ONLY provision for man's sin. Through
Him you can know and experience God's love and plan for your
life (Romans 5:8; 1 Corinthians 15:3-6).
We must individually RECEIVE Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord;
then we can know and experience God's love and plan for our lives
(John 1:12, 3:1-8).
THE GOGO Method
(22)
God's
Love (John 3:16).
Our Sin (Romans 3:23; 6:23).
God's Provision (1 Peter
3:18).
Our Response (John 1:12;
Revelation 3:20).
Important Questions To Ask When Witnessing
Opening Questions: When we begin to
talk to people about their spiritual condition, there are a couple
of questions that we can ask them that will help us to discern whether
they are saved or not. (23) Here are a couple of examples;
"Have you come to
a place in your spiritual life where you know for certain that
if you were to die today you would go to heaven, or is that something
you would say you're still working on?"
"Suppose that you were to die today
and stand before God and He were to say to you, 'Why should
I let you into my heaven?' What would you say?"
If a person can't honestly say that they would go to heaven,
or they don't know why they should go to heaven (i.e., based
on Christ's finished work on the cross alone), or their answer
is unclear, then you need to take the time to share the gospel
with them.
Closing Questions: After you have shared
the gospel with someone it is important that ask them a question
that will get a commitment from them. (24)
Here are some examples;
"Does this make sense
to you?"
"Would you like to receive the gift
of eternal life?"
"If You Died Now, Do You Know That You
Would Go to Heaven? (25)"
"Would You Like
to Know?"
"If I Showed You
How You Could Know, Would You Do What the Bible Says?"
By asking questions like these, or similar questions, it will
accomplish two things: First, it will make the person who
has been witnessed to make a decision to accept or reject Christ
(you have accomplished what you have been called to do, plant
and water. They may need more time before the seed of the gospel
begins to grow and before they respond, but you have made that
process now possible); Second, it will give you an opportunity
to clarify any other questions or misunderstanding that they might
have.
Common Objections
The purpose of listing some possible objections
isn't necessarily so you can memorize them, but so that you will
not be caught off guard if it does happen. You will probably never
be totally prepared to answer every objection, but don't let that
discourage you. If you don't know the answer, then tell the person
that and make a point of finding out the answer and getting back
with them. Also, don't let their objections side track you - that
is what most objections are designed to do. Most of the time, you
can simply reply "before you can really understand what you are
asking, you first need to understand what God has done for you (or
who Christ is)," or some similar comment. The point is, you
keep them focused upon the gospel message and not off on all the
rabbit trails. Years ago I worked with an individual who would come
back to my office to ask me some "religious" questions (this individual
was very intelligent, but he also liked to get Christians all twisted
up with questions that they could not answer). Every time he would
ask me one of his questions, I would tell him that before he could
really understand the answer to his question, he needed to understand
who Jesus was and what He had did for him. By the time this individual
left the job for a new one, he told me that I was the only Christian
that he had ever met that gave him intelligent answers or challenged
him. The truth was, I didn't really answer any of his questions,
but I had simply pointed him back to the gospel. I don't know if
he had ever accepted Christ, but I do know God used that time for
planting and watering the gospel. In the book, Evangelism Explosion,
they give the following suggestions for handling objections
(26);
Avoid Arguing: you may win the debate,
but lose the person's respect.
Show A Positive Attitude: let the person know that you
are glad that they have enough freedom to express their feelings
to you. let the person know that you are glad that they are
listening and assimilating what you are presenting.
Use Sincere Compliments: sincere compliments are effective
in reducing tensions. Let them know that their opinions are
intelligent or well thought out, even though you might disagree
with them for your own reasons. Let them know that you enjoyed
their willingness to discuss spiritual issues with you. These
type of compliments can be sincere and often will keep an argument
from starting.
Prayer: if you are visiting, and you have someone with
you that is helping, then make sure they are praying for God's
presence during the whole conversation. Remember only God can
change a heart, we are not capable of doing that no matter how
verbally gifted we might be.
Here are some common objections that you might encounter
when you are witnessing (27);
"I've got plenty of
time"
Answer: "We all think we do. But
nobody is promised tomorrow. People die unexpectedly every day.
No one should put off such an eternally important matter" (James
4:13-17; Luke 12:19-20).
"I'm a good person and I don't believe
God would ever send me to hell."
Answer: "Compared to other people,
you may be a very good person. But, God is a holy God and His
standard is perfection. Can you give Him that? Nobody can. Everybody
has sinned and is in need of God's forgiveness. We are saved
by grace through faith in Christ who died for us on the cross.
Good works will never get anyone to heaven because we can never
be good enough" (Rom.3:23; 6:23; Eph.2:8-10; Titus 3:5).
NOTE: When someone uses this excuse,
using the 10 Commandments will do an excellent job of stripping
away their goodness (See the R.C.C.R Method of witnessing above).
"There are too many hypocrites in the church."
Answer: "You are absolutely right.
But, God knows who they are and will deal with them in the day
of judgment. When we stand before God, He will not be asking
us about what someone else has done with Jesus. He will ask
what have we personally done with Him" (Rom.14:12).
"There are so many churches and I just
don't know which is the right one."
Answer: "A church doesn't save anyone.
Jesus saves. It's important for you to find the right church,
but that comes later. Right now, let's just focus on receiving
Jesus Christ into your life" (Acts 4:12).
"I'm afraid I won't be able to live it."
Answer: "No, you won't live a perfect
life. But Christ living in you will give you strength and help
you to live for Him. When you do fail the Father's forgiveness
is available. He wants to forgive and instantly restore fellowship
with Him" (Phil.2:13; 1 John 1:9; Rev.3:20).
"I don't understand enough."
Answer: "Becoming a Christian is
not based upon WHAT we know but WHO we know. We don't become
a Christian by receiving knowledge but by receiving Jesus. If
you understand John 3:16, you know enough to become a Christian."
"I have already been baptized."
Answer: "Baptism doesn't save anyone.
Jesus saves. Baptism pictures the death, burial and resurrection
of Christ and through it we let others know we have trusted
Christ for salvation. It is the ANNOUNCEMENT of our salvation,
not the WAY of our salvation" (Acts 16:27-33).
"I'm afraid."
Answer: "You won't be afraid when
you realize how much God loves you. He gave His Son to die on
the cross so that you can be saved. If He loved you enough to
do that, you don't have ANYTHING to be afraid of! He only wants
the best for your life" (Rom.5:6-8).
"When it's time, I'll feel right about
it."
Answer: "The bible doesn't say anything
about 'feeling' a certain way when we decide to receive Christ.
It's a matter of the WILL. If it is your choice to receive Christ
into you life right now, you can" (Rev.22:17).
"After the way I've lived my life, I don't
deserve to be saved."
Answer: "What you have just said
is true for everyone of us. But, no matter what you have done,
God still loves you and wants to forgive and save you. Christ
died on the cross for the sin of the WORLD. That includes anything
and everything you may have done. Everyone must be saved by
God's GRACE" (Eph.2:8-10; 1 Tim. 1:12-16)
Summary On Witnessing
Regardless of which method you use (or even
a combination of several) the main points of witnessing are always
the same (28):
God loves all of us, so we don't have to
earn his love.
I have sinned against God (by breaking His law or standards),
and this sin must be punished by God because He is Just and
Righteous (i.e., He always does what is right).
Christ died to pay the price for my sin.
I must accept Jesus as my Savior to receive God's forgiveness.
When I do this, I become a God's child.
Find a method that you feel comfortable with and use it. Acrostics
(letters at the beginning of each line which form a word or a
message) are useful because they give us mental word pictures
that make it easier for us to remember, so use the one which is
easiest for you to remember.
One of the best ways to train others is for them to watch someone
else. (29) So it is not only helpful
to provide some "classroom" training, but it is even more important
to get them involved with some "on the job training." Send
your new visitation team members out with experienced members until
they gain the experience and confidence to lead a visitation team.
Also send them out with different experienced visitation members,
this will give broaden their experience.
Hospital Visitation
Howard R. Sugden & Warren W. Wiersbe, in their book, Confident
Pastoral Leadership, give this advice when it comes to making hospital
visits. (30)
Get to know the hospital personnel and make yourself
available to help them, but don't assume authority that you don't possess.
If there is a chaplain in charge, by all means become his friend, even
if you are of different faiths. [My notes here: This is important because
there has been recent federal laws that have been passed which have
had a direct impact upon your visit. Understand that most hospitals
are thrilled to have pastors come in and visit, but they are also afraid
of being sued and have to deal with federal laws dealing with the patient's
privacy. If you visit someone and go and tell others about their situation,
without their permission, you could be opening yourself, your church,
and the hospital up to law suits. So gets the facts before you go].
Visit at hours convenient to the patients. Visiting them in the late
morning, after their baths, is a good time to stop by: The patients
are fresh and clean, they have not been worn out by other visitors,
and there will be fewer interruptions. Arrange your visits according
to the rules of the hospital. Don't make yourself a pest. Get the
facts about the patient, so as not to embarrass yourself. Be cheerful
but not a standup comedian. Leave your problems and symptoms outside
the door and enter the room determined to be an encouragement.
Don't become an amateur physician. It is wrong to diagnose the case
or to compare a patient with others you have visited. Never act as
a go-between when patients and physicians have differences. If a patient
has fears or frustrations, be a counselor and help them find their
peace in Christ.
Be brief. Long visits can often do more harm than good. Each visit
should help to lift the patient with hopefulness and joy. In most
cases, read something brief from the Word and pray to the point. Don't
turn the bed into a pulpit and preach to the whole ward. A quiet,
personal prayer at the bedside is what the patient needs. Pay attention
to the others in the room; greet them and be friendly. If it is a
double room, or three-bed room, be sure to include the other patients
in your prayer. If there are other visitors in the room, wait for
a break in the conversation and ask, "Would you mind if I prayed
for all of us?" Very few patients or visitors would be offended.
Use Christian literature judiciously. Be sure to read carefully whatever
you distribute; the wrong tract can do untold damage. Select Tracts
that are appropriate to the purpose of the visit.
Some church members should be advised not to do hospital visitation
at all. They may not like it, but it is better to upset a few saints
than to lose your testimony before the whole hospital.
Visitation Follow-up
A follow up letter also makes the visit something
special and appreciated. (31) In fact
Dr. Tom Clegg, in his church growth seminar 7 Habits of a Visitor
Friendly Church, (32) says that it is important make at least seven contacts
with the family after your first visit, in the next 7 days. This
can be done in several different ways, such as; a pastor's letter ;
another informal visit by a church member or pastor (bring a small gift
like coffee mugs with church name); a phone call by another person (2
or 3 phones calls that week would reinforce the message that your church
cares about them - make sure these calls are short); send several welcome
cards (from church members; a follow-up phone call by a church staff
member or deacon should be made within the 1st or 2nd week and again
6 to 8 weeks later. (even if they haven't shown back up). Dr. Clegg
also suggests that if the person doesn't return to your church that
you ask them why (this is so you can evaluate your church to see what
you are doing right or wrong).
Encouraging Your Visitation Ministry To Grow.
The best way to encourage others to get involved
is to continue to promote the visitation ministry before the church.
Visitation is better caught than taught. It spreads best by contagion,
not compulsion, and don't scold those who are not involved. Start with
a few choice men and/or women, and take them with you when you visit.
Ask God to touch their hearts. Give opportunities for your people to
testify of the blessing of visiting. Most of all be sure that the visitation
ministry is worth inviting others to share in.
(33)
ENDNOTES
1. How To Conduct A Visitation & Soul Winning
Program, Liberty Home Bible Institute, Jim Soward, 1976, Tape Series
Notes.
2. 7 Habits of a Visitor Friendly Church, Dr.
Tom Clegg, Church Growth Seminar Notes.
3. Confident Pastoral Leadership, p.97, by
Howard R. Sugden & Warren W. Wiersbe, Baker Book house, Grand Rapids
MI, 1993, Second Edition.
4. 7 Habits of a Visitor Friendly Church, Dr.
Tom Clegg, Church Growth Seminar Notes.
5. Toolbox for [Busy] Pastors, pp.177-178,
by Barry Campbell, Lifeway Church Resources, Convention Press, Nashville
TN, 2002.
6. The Day Of Visitation, A Practical Guide
To Establishing A Church Visitation Program, Noel M. Wright III, Wright
Track Ministries, Cordova TN, 1993
7. Ibid.
8. The Way of the Master Academy, witnessing
and evangelism course, lesson 36, Evangelist Ray Comfort, http://www.raycomfort.com
9. Let's God Soul Winning, pp.14-15, by Dr.
Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
10. Toolbox for [Busy] Pastors, pp.177-178,
by Barry Campbell, Lifeway Church Resources, Convention Press, Nashville
TN, 2002.
11. Let's God Soul Winning, pp.22-23, by Dr.
Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
12. The Day Of Visitation, A Practical Guide
To Establishing A Church Visitation Program, Noel M. Wright III, Wright
Track Ministries, Cordova TN, 1993
13. Let's God Soul Winning, pp.15-18, by Dr.
Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
14. The Day Of Visitation, A Practical Guide
To Establishing A Church Visitation Program, Noel M. Wright III, Wright
Track Ministries, Cordova TN, 1993
15. Let's God Soul Winning, pp.19-20, by Dr.
Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
16. Ibid., pp.23-24
17. Share Jesus Without Fear, by William Fay
& Ralph Hodge, Lifeway Press, Nashville TN, 1997
18. The Way of the Master Academy, witnessing
and evangelism course, Evangelist Ray Comfort, http://www.raycomfort.com
19. ABC's of Evangelism, by Stan Toler,
Beacon Hill Press, Kansas City, KS, 2002.
20. Share Jesus Without Fear, by William
Fay & Ralph Hodge, Lifeway Press, Nashville TN, 1997
21. Campus Crusade for Christ International,
http://www.campuscrusade.com
22. Evangelism Made Easy, Personal
Evangelism the First Baptist Church Way, Bartlesville OK
23. Evangelism Explosion, p.31, by
D. James Kennedy, Tyndale House Publishing, Wheaton IL, 4th
Ed.
24. Ibid., p.32
25. Let's God Soul Winning, p.33, by
Dr. Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
26. Evangelism Explosion, pp.145-149,
by D. James Kennedy, Tyndale House Publishing, Wheaton IL, 4th
Ed.
27. Evangelism Made Easy, Personal
Evangelism the First Baptist Church Way, Bartlesville OK
28. Plans For Presenting Salvation To Children,
http://www.biblestudyplanet.com/f6.htm
29. Let's God Soul Winning, p.9, by
Dr. Jack Hyles, Sword of the Lord Publisher, Murfreesboro TN, 1973.
30. Confident Pastoral Leadership,
pp.97-99, by Howard R. Sugden & Warren W. Wiersbe, Baker Book house,
Grand Rapids MI, 1993, Second Edition.
31. A Pastor's Manual on Doing Church,
pp.141-142, Mal Couch General Editor, 21st Century Press,
Springfield MO, 2002.
32. 7 Habits of a Visitor Friendly Church,
Dr. Tom Clegg, Church Growth Seminars
33. Confident Pastoral Leadership,
pp.99-100, by Howard R. Sugden & Warren W. Wiersbe, Baker Book house,
Grand Rapids MI, 1993, Second Edition.
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